This post is all about the habits of a confident woman
Habits of confident women are easily incorporated into everyday life, as long as that’s your goal of course.
Actions speak louder than words we’ve all heard it, and not only that, they’re a way of manifesting what you really want in life; it takes confident habits to make a confident woman.
Confidence doesn’t always come naturally; I know it didn’t for me and that’s okay. It isn’t always going to be perfect but all it takes is trying even a little to see a huge difference.
It takes more than two weeks to form a habit and while that may seem long- I mean you want to change now right? In the grand scheme of things forming good habits is the best thing you can do for yourself.
13 Habits of Confident Women
1. Love Those Who Deserve to Be Loved
You can’t fully love yourself if you can’t find a reason to love someone else. This is one of the super important habits of confident women.
Finding beauty in other people is a sure-fire way to love yourself. Hate spreads like a wildfire and it’s easy to project onto others when you feel insecure yourself. It’s not something many will admit to but it’s true.
So love those who deserve to be loved. Not everyone is deserving of your love because frankly, some people suck. But it’s better to make that decision after you’ve gotten to know someone. Approach strangers with kindness and to those you do know; love them to the best of your ability.
They’ll love you back, and while you shouldn’t find all your self-worth in other people, knowing that someone loves you back and there’s a reason for that is so heart-warming.
2. Ask – Always Seek Knowledge
Ask– It’s okay to not know everything. We all wish we did but sometimes it’s okay to just ask. People aren’t dumb; they can spot a know it all from a mile away and while the goal here is confidence, arrogance isn’t confidence and people often get the two mixed up.
Don’t be that person, know your weakness and there will always be someone willing to ask
Always Seek Knowledge– Knowledge is power, it really is. Learning doesn’t have to involve sitting in a classroom for hours. (although that might help) Listen to a podcast- it could be a dark true-crime podcast or it could be as light and girl boss as you like, Learn about confident women through books; Whatever suits your interest, always be learning.
I find that learning motivates me to be my own boss teaching others what they want to know. Nothing’s more confident than someone willing to share their knowledge respectfully and articulately. Keep learning for yourself and others around you
3. Self-Care Is a Must
Whatever that entails for you, do it. For some, it’s a cruelty-free skincare routine, for others it’s running a mile in the summer heat because nothing gets their blood pumping more. Maybe it’s reading an entire dictionary- it doesn’t matter.
Self-care is what makes you feel your best, as much as social media pushes the idea of bubble baths and rose-scented candles, that’s okay too. But only you know what makes you feel best.
4. Have Clear and Meaningful Goals
Having goals is one thing, most people have them. But are they true to you and what’s morally correct?
It’s easy to fall into the rabbit hole of goals you should have when really your goals should be something you want and can achieve.
Your friend’s goal is to make x amount of money for the year. But is that achievable for you? If not, don’t stress yourself out about being as successful as someone else. It’s only going to cause a build-up of negative emotions that will shine through.
Goals should be meaningful as well. Confident women don’t set goals for themselves that they know aren’t going to fulfil them.
It is easy to think you should be buying the newest car, but if taking the bus is fine for you then keep doing it. Spend your money on something that truly matters to you.
5. She Knows her Strength and Weakness
There are two ways to deal with this.
Confident women either accept their weakness as is and are humbled to know they can’t do everything
Or she works on them. This ties into seeking knowledge.
Both are completely fine options, it depends on the person and how they choose to deal with it.
Acknowledging one’s weaknesses is a sign of strength, as long as those weakness do not hinder their personal growth. Working on weaknesses is fine too, personal growth is a journey and never a destination, and there is always something about ourselves to improve
Love Those Who Deserve to be Loved– having numerous people loving you for who you are is a confidence booster because why wouldn’t they love you? You’re a fantastic woman who deserves to be treated as such
Ask – Always Seek Knowledge – asking when unsure or seeking out knowledge yourself is something confident women should always strive for. Knowledge is power and confident women strive to be as successful as possible
Self-Care Is a Must– Self-care is whatever makes you feel at your best. If it’s a nice candle-lit bubble bath then fine. If it’s vigorous exercise then great. It’s whatever you make it. When you feel good exuding confidence is inevitable.
Have clear and Meaningful Goals– have goals that you want to achieve, not goals you think you should have. Let them be meaningful to you or someone else if that’s what you wish
She knows her strengths and weakness– A woman should be able to come to terms with her abilities and her shortcomings. How ever, she chooses to address them is valid.
Confidence is infectious. Be the person you always wanted to be and treat yourself how you want to be treated.
Everyone loves a confident woman, I know I do because she inspires me to be a better version of myself. And what more could you want in life than to be someone else inspiration…sounds like a dream doesn’t it?
This post was all about the habits of a confident woman